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Curriculum Vitae ather, is a man like no he gave me suggestions, he exposes A father’s involvement in his
• Name: Lavina Sabila other. Some people might to me what are the benefits and daughter’s life is fundamental in
• Place/date of birth: Lhokseumawe, F say that father only play risks that I will get if I take a certain the development of daughter’s
September 17th 1997
a small role in the family. decision. He helped me to manage self-esteem. A father’s influence
Educational Background Father is only responsible my mind, find my passion, and in his daughter’s life shapes her
• SD Negeri 20 Banda Aceh to work hard, pay bills, and give the decide things. He is not a kind of self-esteem, self-image, confidence
• SMP Negeri 6 Banda Aceh rest of parental job to mother. No parent who will force his children to and opinions of men. I do realize by
• SMA Laboratorium Unsyiah wonder, many children appear to follow what he asks us. He is a kind my self that it is true. Before having
• International Accounting Program, form closer attachment to their of man who will tell us the good and presentation, or whenever I have
Faculty of Economy and Business, bad sides of things, let us consider to go on stage, or before joining a
Universitas Syiah Kuala (4th semester) mother instead of their father. by our self and decide. He is also my competition, I usually talk to my
motivation booster in studying and father the morning before that
Social Medias
• Email: lavina_sabila@yahoo.com But for me personally, father has achieving my goals. event. I usually complain about how
• Instagram: @vinlavina bigger role than that. And I am nervous I am, how I feel like I am
pretty sure I am not the only one Talking about career, a study not capable enough and he always
Achievement: who is saying this because there are also said that involved father has has his own ways to boost my self
• Mobility Student to Universiti Utara a lot of researches regarding about daughters who are more ambitious confidence and convience me that I
Malaysia 2017 this issue, father and daughter in their careers. Another study on am capable.
• Fourth Runner-up Duta GenRe relationship, father’s influence on 2009 study from the University of
Indonesia 2016 Rizki Hawalaina Maryland, revealed that women Those studies about father’s
• First Winner Duta Mahasiswa GenRe her daughter. The influences could are three times as likely to follow in influence on daughters proof us that
Aceh 2016 be about a lot of things. Our father
can influence our academic, career, their father’s career footsteps these father and daughter’s relationship
and even our self confidence. days than they were a century ago. is very important. If you are a
We can say that father has a big daughter and you feel like your
A study by the U.S. Department impact on daughter’s career. father didn’t give many impacts in
of Education found that highly your life maybe you and your father
involved fathers had children who Another thing about father is, haven’t built a good relationship.
were 43 percent more likely than he influences his daughter’s self And it is never too late to start a
other children to earn mostly A’s image. Young women with engaged new one. Communicate more with
and 33 percent less likely than other fathers had higher overall opinions your father, discuss things, ask
Written By: Lavina Sabila children to repeat a grade. Another of themselves, the U.S. Department his opinion, and you will see the
government study concluded that of Health and Human Services’ differences in your life. If you are a
girls with involved fathers are twice Administration for Children and father, and you feel like you are too
as likely to stay in school. And Families also has reported, along busy for your daughters, remember
those with fathers who are actively with higher reported levels of that you are the one who shape your
Father and Daughter involved in their lives have higher self-esteem. Fathers play an daughters, you are the influencer.
important role in the development
quantitative and verbal skills, as well
Barack Obama, a president, and also
of their children. From their role
a good father, said “Any fool can
as higher intellectual functioning.
Relationship Since I was in elementary school, my in communicate and act as role- have a child. That doesn’t make you
models for their kids, loving,
a father. It’s the courage to raise a
engaged fathers have been shown to
child that makes you a father. Let
father helped me a lot on deciding
have a tremendous impact on how a
things. He didn’t force me to choose
us build a good father and daughter
child grows up.
relationship, from today. (fhr)
certain things that he likes, instead
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